Our church has been having a largely intellectual discussion about the background of our Session's recent decision to enter the process of moving from PC(USA) to ECO
http://eco-pres.org/who-we-are/
Instead of denominations and labels, what if our two choices were represented by
these words and emotions:
#1“Stability” comfort. . . The way I remember things. . . “The church of my mother, my father, my grandparents” Christmas eve services. . . Stained Glass. . . Peace. . . . . Openness. . .Harmony. . .security
#1“Stability” comfort. . . The way I remember things. . . “The church of my mother, my father, my grandparents” Christmas eve services. . . Stained Glass. . . Peace. . . . . Openness. . .Harmony. . .security
#2 : Change. . Hurry . .compulsion anger strife
disagreement Doctrine “The church I left in sadness or anger years ago” Danger.
. . risk “Doctrines I disagree with or don’t understand—that can’t be good” “Certainty
of danger for an uncertain result” Fear. . .clamor. . .disquiet
When I hear the discussion, and when I feel my
own emotions and imagine those of people in the room (including facial
expressions), it seems like that’s what we are up against. #1 vs #2. . . . . stability vs. the unknown
or the unwanted.
For some, PC(USA) represents security and a
defense against change. PC(USA is the “way things have been” and/or “the way they ought
to be”
This positive, historical image of PC(USA) may
explain our division more clearly than philosophy.
ECO is different and seems strange: there are few
ECO churches in our area, and the closest, in Quincy, MA, is not a church we have worked
and fellowshipped with in the recent past.
So, are we presented with a choice between
stability and the unknown? People may sincerely feel this way, but this does
not describe the real world in which finite humans must live. Stability is not an option. We don’t have a pastor. We don’t have a low-maintenance, new, energy
efficient building. We don’t have a long
list (or even a short list)of experienced, excited, educated pastoral
candidates, eager to affiliate or remain with PC(USA). We DO have uncertain prospects of raising the
millions needed to return our building to its original condition, plus millions
more to make it energy efficient. In
sum, we already have the emotions I’ve assigned to choice #2. Wherever we go, denominationally, even if we
choose to stay with PC(USA), Choice #2 is already our reality, and Choice #1 is simply not an option. We can imagine stability, but we can’t
manufacture it. The only choices in a
real world are between different paths of change that define the sort of future
for which we are willing to sacrifice even more of our time and treasure.
What do YOU think? Are there any emotions involved, or is this purely an intellectual and financial calculation? Let's talk--I will respond, and I will do my best to be fair. Darrell